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LOCATION | MEMBERSHIP | SINGLES | WHAT TO BRING | WHO COMES?  

 We're devoted to sensual parties featuring tantric techniques, structured sensual energy, sharing and communication opportunities followed by free-flowing lifestyle relating for couples and singles (gender balanced). 

      This novel approach combines positive eroticism and gentle loving energies elevates lovemaking to a high level creates a safe, comfortable environment for newbies while sensual enough for experienced singles, couples, polys, tantricas, swingers, playcouples and lifestylers.

Maui, HI:  This is our primary location. Club Tantra Parties are Saturdays starting at 7 PM pm in Maui.  We meet when we get two or more couples to pre-register.  If only one couple registers, then we shift to a private session with that couple.

Oahu, HI - Club Tantra parties scheduled for summer 2009. If you have a nice venue, let us know.  If you host the group at your place, your admission is free that night.  Mahalo. 

We're open to bring a Club Tantra event to your city.  Call 808-244-4921 for details.

Membership, Hawaii:   In Hawaii, Club Tantra annual membership fees of $150 per couple or single must be renewed each year.  Your Club Tantra dues must be current to be admitted to the party.  NASCA, the International Lifestyles organization advises us to admit members only to protect us legally, so you must be a member to attend Club Tantra.  

Cost: Annual Membership Fee: $150 per couple or single which includes your Tantra Orientation interview and instructional class (required) $150, Parties: $100 per couple. 

COUPLES:  Parties: $100 per couple.  SINGLES:  Parties $100 single men and $50 single women.  We gender balance this group.  Single women are usually admitted. Single men are put on a call list and are notified when there's an opening. 

Location:  In Maui our location varies every week as we rotate where we meet among our members.  The location is kept private until the day of the event.  Members agree not to reveal the location as we wish to maintain our privacy.  Members who host Club Tantra at their venue receive free admission that evening.    Dress:  Dress casual, comfortable, inconspicuous especially if our venue for that week is in a private home. We don't wish to attract undue attention to ourselves.  If you want to dress up or down, more sexy or casual, bring outfit changes.  That actually ads to the fun.  Most importantly, make yourself comfortable.  Many of our exercises are on the floor.  Bring pillows and things to make yourself comfy.   Format:  The first half of the evening is informal, casual "mixer" exercises where we get to know one another a bit.  If you want to use a pseudonym, that's fine.  We're here to learn about your personality and soul.

Second part is a tantra class.  In this part we do exercises which focus on the upper chakras: relationship and communication skills, pujas (sacred ceremonial tantric rituals), white tantra yoga, party mixer exercises and ice breakers and more.  This part lasts a couple of hours and is perfect for newbies.  Then we take a break.  If you are shy or feel complete, you may want to exit at this point.  The next part gets sexier.

In the third part of the evening we shift our focus to the lower chakras.  We often do demonstration of  tantric sexual techniques or lead other activities which activate the lower chakras.  In this part typically the only people who tend to get naked are the teachers who demonstrate tantra techniques. However, this part is open and others may join in for coaching.  Also, if we have a lot of repeat party goers, we may not have a demonstration but will offer other things.  It all depends on who shows up.  If we get a core group that shows up repeatedly, we may move into more advanced things like yoni pujas and tantric sacred geometry. What's that?  Well start coming to the parties on a regular basis and you'll find out.   The fourth part shifts to high gear.  We often do tantric massages and practice what we've learned in the earlier part of the evening.  This part can get quite sexy.

As always, there's never any pressure to participate.  You may simply watch or go to other areas of the venue if you wish.  

What to Bring:  Options: Bring a potluck dish to share, drinking water, snacks, fruit juice, flashlight, massage oil, towels, a sheet, health and hygiene products, BYOB.  Some locations allow alcohol and some don't.  Please check first before bringing alcohol. Food and alcohol are not brought out until after the class part of the evening which ends between 9-10pm.  Dress is casual.   Bring a bathing suit. Some locations are clothing optional and some aren't.  

Who comes to our Club Tantra Parties?  We get many curiosity seekers, newbies and beginners in the Lifestyles (which includes tantra, polyamory and swinging).  Many are voyeuristic and want to stay with their partner.  They like the erotic atmosphere and seductive pheromones that fill the air when people get excited and turned on.   We also get a lot of polyamorous people.  These are usually couples who seek other couples or individuals to create on-going relationships and repeated experiences.  We get a few who seek episodes only and wish to avoid emotional intimacy.  All choices are valid and we respect and honor each person's personal preferences.  

Check-In:  Please be on time or early. This is a structured evening rather than a drop-in format.  We create an energy and ambience as a group by the check-in. If you're late we'll all have to wait for you, may feel resentful and won't have the best impression of you because of your tardiness.  We have a check-in up front and state our limitations, expectations, desires and boundaries. You may, if you like, express your relationship status or sexual preferences.  This is the opportunity to express your fantasies as well.  Who knows? Maybe tonight's the night your dreams come true!

Gender Balance:  CLUB TANTRA is mostly gender balanced.  If we have too many single men the energy feels kind weird.  So we've come up with the following system:  Single men and women are admitted as openings become available.  If you are a couple and are seeking to meet single men or single women, let us know as far in advance as possible and we'll be sure to invite a few extra singles the times you attend.  The best thing to do if you wish to meet another single or couple is go to www.ClubTantra.com, fill out a profile and start promoting yourself.  Bring your blind date to the party or ask them to meet you here.  We're experts at making new people feel comfortable.  Meeting in a public place like the Club Tantra party is often more comfortable and safer than meeting in a bar. 


Singles : Registration as a single does not guarantee you admittance but does get you on the waiting list.  It's your responsibility as a member to inform us when you're available to attend a party as a single.  Please try to gender balance yourselves and match yourself up as much as possible if you're particular.  Or if you're adventurous show up and see who else the universe brings to our door this week.  Your registration fee will not be processed until and unless you are admitted.

Connect:  We encourage you to meet other singles and couples and plan your blind date at the club.  Go to www.ClubTantra.com and register for free to find your tantric partner (s) or post a message at:  http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Club_Tantra/  <---- (click here to join our newsletter). 

Tantra School, taught by Dr. Sasha Lessin and Janet Kira Lessin is offered in Maui.  We also feature Private Sessions where we work with individuals, couples and moresomes. 


WARNING!  This event is rated SE for Sexually Explicit and may have nudity, demonstrations of sexual techniques and sensual touching.  You must set and maintain your own boundaries. You must respect the boundaries of all other individuals and couples.  Ask first.  No means no.  No touching other participants without their expressed permission.  No rude behavior.  Violators will be removed with no refund.  

We'd love to bring a Club Tantra Sensuality Party to your hometown. Our events are sweet, full of  warm fuzzies because we combine the best of tantra, polyamory, sensulality, sacred sexuality and loving friendships.  Many swingers look to us to help them deepen their connections, and get to another level they sense and know exists, but seems to be elusive. Tantra makes this happen for them. Sometimes traditional swing parties leave people feeling drained.  Most who've experienced our special combination of swinging and tantra, (which we call Tantra-Swing), leave feeling more more connected, energized, aware and blissful.  We are registered with NASCA [4981] www.nasca.com. 

If you do not pass the basic requirements to participate in this group, you will be directed to the group that best suits you. Private counseling/coaching/therapy may be recommended before admission to any of our DreamMaker(TM) groups.  

    Orientation Interview ($150) is required before you can participate in our dating/study groups, introduction service and parties.

     DreamMaker groups are for singles, couples, triads, groups. All relationship styles and sexual orientations welcome.  DreamMaker Groups & Parties: $100 per week per person.

If this form is not working, call 808-244-4103, email: schooloftantra@aol.com.

 

To register email: ClubTantraHI@aol.com, 808-244-4921 (Maui, HI) 
Web sites:  www.ClubTantra.com, www.worldtantraassociation.com, www.worldpolyamoryassociation.com,
To join our Yahoo mailing list: http://groups.yahoo.com/subscribe/Club_Tantra   

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