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Couples only. Here
couples find other couples with whom to do activities, have fun and share
life. Couples chose whether to remain sexually exclusive in their own coupledom, or venture into realms formerly forbidden.
They negotiate agreements between them and among them to come to
a group consensus. They remain at choice in every moment. There's
never any pressure to do any more than what's comfortable for each
of them individually and collectively. |
The couple, two people acting as one
mind, make decisions together. The couple's relationship is
always respected, always comes first. Couples learn how to
negotiate fairly and communicate honestly and openly with each other
and together. They live with integrity, honesty with purity of
heart, mind and soul.
Love blossoms from this type of mutual respect. Friendships
grows. Sexual love can also grow, but it may not and when
all's open and on the table, that's fine. In fact, it's all
good, food for the grist mill, compost for growth. The
greatest gift that comes from honest, open relating is that
friendships deepen to the deepest levels and all benefit from
greater intimacy and connection.
Couples need other couples to share
what's up with them and to keep from feeling isolated and lonely.
Relationship patterns can be lovingly identified and corrected,
strengthened or redirected depending on whether they're negative,
positive or not serving the relationship and highest good of the
group. Couples when too isolated have a tendency to become
dysfunctional and co-dependent. Humans need a social network
of friends, people with whom we can share our lives, daily
frustrations , fears, frailties, desires, hopes and accomplishments
We can support one another, keep each other from going crazy during
times of stress and to give one another a reference point and
reality check.
After all, it takes a village to raise a
relationship. Join us in the adventure where we create new
relationships for the 21st century.
MAUI MATCHMAKERS
PO BOX 2973, Maui, Hawaii
808-244-4921
mauimatchmakers@gmail.com
How to Register for Couples Club
1. Join
www.mauimatchmakers.com.
2. Pay membership fee (current rate as of January
2009 is $4.95 month)
3. Send email to
mauimatchmakers@gmail.com indicating month you
wish to attend with your contact information, your
gender and profile name you used on
mauimatchmakers.com.
4. You will be put on a list as this event is gender
balanced. Please be patient.
5. When you receive an invitation to participate, go
to the month you wish to attend and click on "add to
cart" button and pay your fee.
6. You'll receive an email with the location of the
group and directions.
7. Print out your receipt and bring it with you to
the meeting.
8. Note: Meeting will only be held if we get at
least 5 men and 5 women to register. Encourage
your friends to join this group so we can create
opportunities to find matches for all of us.
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