COUPLES CLUB

  Couples only.  Here couples find other couples with whom to do activities, have fun and share life.  Couples chose whether to remain sexually exclusive in their own coupledom, or  venture into realms formerly forbidden.  They negotiate agreements between them and among them to come to a group consensus. They remain at choice in every moment. There's never any pressure to do any more than what's comfortable for each of them individually and collectively. 

The couple, two people acting as one mind, make decisions together.  The couple's relationship is always respected, always comes first.  Couples learn how to negotiate fairly and communicate honestly and openly with each other and together.  They live with integrity, honesty with purity of heart, mind and soul.

Love blossoms from this type of mutual respect.  Friendships grows.  Sexual love can also grow, but it may not and when all's open and on the table, that's fine.  In fact, it's all good, food for the grist mill, compost for growth.  The greatest gift that comes from honest, open relating is that friendships deepen to the deepest levels and all benefit from greater intimacy and connection. 

Couples need other couples to share what's up with them and to keep from feeling isolated and lonely.  Relationship patterns can be lovingly identified and corrected, strengthened or redirected depending on whether they're negative, positive or not serving the relationship and highest good of the group.  Couples when too isolated have a tendency to become dysfunctional and co-dependent.  Humans need a social network of friends, people with whom we can share our lives, daily frustrations , fears, frailties, desires, hopes and accomplishments  We can support one another, keep each other from going crazy during times of stress and to give one another a reference point and reality check. 

After all, it takes a village to raise a relationship.  Join us in the adventure where we create new relationships for the 21st century.