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Janet's Intro:
This was the year of transition for many
friends and acquaintances. Young and old alike made the leap to
the other side. Personally at times it was shocking, unexpected,
devastating, destabilizing. One young man, 35, died in November.
Another, 28, left us his young wife with less than 48 hours left in the
year. Both deaths were sudden, unexpected, unexplained. Yes, I realize that with all these wars and rumors of war, I have my work cut out for me. While it may seem that time's running out, the urgency surrounding the impending perturbation for humanity, the clarion call and the great awakening creates the perfect climate where we may rise to the occasion, seek the highest good for all and become the ones we've been waiting for. It's doable. We simply need to focus on love and create a new paradigm where we shift all of creation to a new zeitgeist of compassion, understanding, acceptance, tolerance and peace. Piece of cake. In amongst all the hardships, trials and tribulations, I recognize the human condition, the great spirit that propels us ever forward, keeps us reincarnating and procreating with the never-ending hope that the next generation will have it better than the one before. Each generation we build on the shoulders of giants, our forefathers and mothers who gave so much of who they were and inspired us to carry on and do better. While things like wars and crazy economies hurt, main, harm and even kill us, somehow in spite of it all life gets better in many ways. Technology, science, revelations, better health practices and medicines continually create a better civilization. We definitely fall short of the mark on peace talks and conflict resolution. And while some things are better, we need to stop fooling ourselves. It's "shit or get off the pot" time. Our oceans are dying. And if our oceans go, so do we. It's true! Reality hit home during a conversation at our party on New Year's Eve where I learned that Ma'alaea Bay here in Maui is dead. The coral reef is caput. Now come on. This is Maui. We really need to pay attention! And reef extinction due to pollution is spreading, not only here in Maui, but globally. With that in mind, let us begin the new year.
This issue focuses on tantra, love, peace,
polyamory, ancient astronauts, UFOs, Sitchin studies, conspiracy, 2012,
environmental issues, aging, death and dying, physical immortality and a
call for inventions, solutions, ideas and avenues to break on through to
humanity's salvation, ways to survive violence, wars, pollution and
Planet X. Well, perhaps we can't fit all that in this issue.
But we'll begin here and continue with new social networks, web sites,
forums, blogs, groups and anything and everything it takes to make it.
Let peace begin for me, mine, yours, theirs and all of life here on
Gaia, our sacred Mother Earth, our home, the only home we all have.
Contents this newsletter:
http://www.schooloftantra.net/Newsletters/Synergy/SynergyJanuary2009.htm 7. CALENDAR - School of Tantra Calendar - 9. Launch of Maui Matchmakers - www.mauimatchmakers.com, www.maui-matchmakers.ning.com 10. Dating Web Sites and Support Groups 11. Social Networks ***
1. Tantra Article: HELP HER EJACULATE -
by Janet Kira Lessin The time, place and people and the place must be safe for her, that's why it's so important to create the container for this sacred event. Create that which she needs in order for it to be appropriate for her to let down her guard. In tantra, the goal is goal-lessness, especially when it involves female ejaculation which is extremely personal, intense and involves a high degree of openness and vulnerability for both the giver and receiver. This sacred ritual deserves to be honored and respected and not put into the arena of a circus show. Getting a woman to ejaculate is not an indicator of a man's sexual prowess and a woman's ability to ejaculate is not yet another area where women can compare themselves and feel inferior to a man or even other women. It takes a woman longer to get aroused than a man. So in order to get synchronized, in tantric sex we always give the woman at least one orgasm before intercourse. Take a deep breath together, smile and match each others' rhythm. Look in her eyes. Ask permission to touch. When given, begin by blowing softly on the clitoris. Take your time, you've got all night. Begin with baby kisses. Ever so lightly brush past her pearl with your tongue. As she responds, gradually increase frequency and intensity of your touch.
Take her clitoris in your mouth and
trace it with your tongue. Soft
at first until she responds. Pay attention to her breath, pulse, Imagine the Clitoris is a Mini Penis Her clitoris is a miniature glands penis so pleasure her as you would like your penis pleased, only softer. As you take her pearl in your mouth and suck, it swells with blood growing larger and larger as it becomes engorged. Her labia becomes flushed with blood. Her pelvis begins to thrust inviting you to do more as the juices flow. May I Enter Your Sacred Cave? Ask her for the honor of entering her sacred space with your finger. When she gives permission, wet your ring finger on your non-dominant hand and gently insert it into her orifice. At first just hold. Allow contact and energy to flow. Make eye contact, take a few breaths together. Go slow, and at all times remember the sacredness of this mediation ritual that you are co-creating with this divine being who has invited your into her innermost wholly places. Put Her in the Mudra Keep the palm of your hand on her clitoris while you do the mudras on her chakras to get her even more into the mood. As you hold your hand in place inside her yoni, look in her eyes as you touch the crown of her head and say as you gently touch each chakra "Imagine the Goddess Shakti resides in the crown of your head and we are inviting her to come down through her third-eye, throat, heart, power and sexual chakras to meet her devotee at who waits patiently at her sacred shrine; honored to gather there to worship her". The most common area that breaks down for most of us in long-term relationships is the sexuality. We build up internal resentments over time from our unresolved disagreements. Previous issues from programming we received from parents, culture, and relationships before we found one another sneak up on us and shut us down. We move apart; eventually we fall apart. Many times we reach "the brick wall"; and communication breaks down completely. Our responses are now totally reactionary and continue to disintegrate. As the tide of resentments continue to swell, our thoughts move to other people and outside experiences. We try to recover that feeling of excitement, joy and bliss that once were there in the relationship long ago when our romance was new. Many times the thoughts become deeds, and then the sneaking, secrecy and lies begin. We're all psychic and feel what the other tries to conceal. Even though we don't speak the lies, the betrayed party knows. The gap widens; the barrier to intimacy becomes complete. Lovemaking goes from infrequently to never. Sometimes the underlying guilt manifests itself in impotence and other forms of sexual dysfunction. When we've reached the end, our only hope is honesty. Unfortunately, most of us do not have the tools to communicate deeply and honestly. The fears of what we don't want to create tend to backfire on us and create just that; and life becomes our worst nightmare. The truth comes out in hideous fashion. Or worst yet, lies continues and we're subject to serving out sentences we imposed on one another. How long will your sentence last? How much can you endure? All-Chakra living means communicating on all levels: mind, body and soul. Sasha and I can literally tell one another anything that we are thinking. If we have an attraction for another, we express it. Issues unexpressed have a way of becoming demonic and coming out in inappropriate ways. If we have a desire, we work on ways to satisfy them; although perhaps not in the exact way as envisioned by the person, we move in the direction that feels comfortable for both of us. Decisions are unanimous and joint. If something doesn't work for one of us, it doesn't work for either of us. There are three entities in all our decision making: Janet, Sasha and the relationship, which we value and cherish above anything else. For if WE aren't working, nothing else in life seems to work. Everything else suffers: our joy, our jobs, our health, our life.
Yes, even our life. When life isn't
lived authentically from
truth and honesty, the stress from the emotional repression many Many counselors try to keep couples together at all costs. Yet actually, sometimes the kindest decision is to part--even if there are children, economic considerations and a million other excuses to stay together. Everyone deserves a full-chakra life. If you find your relationship lacking in one of these areas, do something about it. Become conscious and discover ways to expand your connection; find things in common and develop them in those areas for one another. There are many models for conflict resolution. Get outside help if necessary. Find something that works for you. Go to seminars, therapy, church counselors, whatever it takes. If the love is strong, do it--for the love is worth it. Finally, if you have discovered that you have completed your developmental tasks together and there are no new goals that you share--that you've reached a point where the lies are too big to overcome--where you find the resentments too deep to heal and the hurts outweigh the amount of love that you have, then set each other free. That may be the highest expression of love.
Allow yourselves a fresh start, love
again, correct the wrongs
you've done and stop punishing yourselves. You deserve a full life, It's never too late even though you may think it is. When Sasha and I found each other it was after two long-term, failed marriages for each of us. I was well over 40 and he over 50 when we united and embarked on our life of bliss. It wasn't easy for either of us. Our journey was a long road of working on ourselves, doing our family-of-origin work, healing our internal wounds from previous relationships and becoming conscious through therapy, seminars, reading and self-education. And it ain't over yet!
Relationships are a process; and Sasha
and I are conscious
enough to recognize that and commit to it. We are devoted to one We now have new models of relating with open, honest, clear and authentic communication. Living an orgasmic life is not only possible for all; it's our birthright. Therapy and counseling are today's tools for healing relationships and personal wounds--just like medicine has been used to heal diseases and physical wounds. Tantra reunites our souls in ancient ways, combining sexuality and spirituality. We return now to our source, forging beyond the veil of forgetfulness, moving past our skin encapsulated bodies, completing our divine union, remembering the LOVE which is all there really is. Janet Kira Lessin janetkiralessin@aol.com, http://worldtantraassoc.ning.com/
2. POLY REPROGRAMMING by Sasha Lessin,
Ph.D.
sashalessinphd@aol.com We attract people who enact our inchoate, underdeveloped, suppressed, despised or otherwise disowned aspects, inner voices, shadow subselves and hated habits. We see in those we attract what we admire and what we dislike in ourselves. Our lovers reflect parts we need to accept, honor and enjoy to feel whole. Use difficulties with each other to deepen our intimacy. Difficulties lead to emotional growth and deeper intimacy when we work through them. Discuss and resolve them or, if the difficulties seem irresolvable, relive and change past scripts to see the opportunities inherent in the difficulty. Keep the valuable learning and the adaptive inner voices we developed to cope with the situation that fueled your upset. Process upsets as they occur in interaction with lovers. Example: when my mate Janet, or someone we're loving feels upset in a poly pod love-in, we stop sex and focus on the upset person and ask what we can do for her. If she's still upset, we ask her to respond aloud to each of the cue sentences below. Use these cues to move from upset to more intimacy in similar circumstances. Recall earlier–even childhood--times or invoke past life images that resonate with the upset you're having with me [or ?]. Describe the earlier, similar situation your recall or imagine. Relive the upset; feel your body and emotions as you did then. Express your feelings to the people involved as though they're here. What decisions did you make? How have those decisions served you? What inner voice developed to protect you? Sit in a different place and roleplay that inner voice. Say how you still serve her (or him). What, Protective Voice, would you like her/him to appreciate you for. What, Voice, worries you about the upset s/he's having now with me [or ?]? Return to your Center. Tell me ways you can coordinate the needs of your protective, vulnerable and instinctual voices. Say how you choose to relate to me [or ?]. Let us know how this processing pattern panned out for you.
Sasha Lessin, Ph.D.,
www.worldpolyamoryassociation.com Stop killing. Return to bases and demand immediate passage home. The GIs who'd rather frag than win medals for their officers and who knew we supported them at home stopped the Nam debacle.
Create a Troops' Union to stop stupid
wars.
Transferring murder sites from Iraq to Afganistan leaves you Thou shalt not kill.
UNIVERSAL SOLDIER by Buffy Sainte-Marie*
He's a Catholic, a Hindu, an atheist, a
Jain,
And he's fighting for Canada,
And he's fighting for Democracy
But without him how would Hitler have
He's the universal soldier and he
4. UFO Article: NIBIRU COMES
(author unknown)
Nibiru is a planet that follows a very
long, wide elliptical orbit, which causes it to pass through your
solar system every 11,500 years or so. It doesn't take this long to
complete an orbit, but it takes the aforementioned amount of time to
pass close enough to your planet for you to notice the effects of
it's passing. Illustrated at www.extraterrestrialcontact.ning.com Zecharia Sitchin's revolutionary proofs of the history of our solar system and on hybridization experiments on Earth focus on the period 500,000 years ago until 2023 B.C.. His proofs have profound implications for us all. Sitchin's facts can end the stranglehold of Earth's present matrix. He exposes the mindset that governments, religions, establishment scientists, slavers and corporations perpetrate by denying our true origins. Establishment scientists dismiss the stories and physical evidence which Sitchin, Richard Thompson, Michael Cremo and Michael Tellinger–revisionist historians-- present regarding human origins and history on Earth. Conventional evolutionists refuse to seriously consider the evidence from non-Darwinists, from ancient civilizations and from contemporary cultures the revisionists review. Yet the revisionist perspectives can be posited as hypotheses that can be tested.
Sitchin cites archeological records of
an atmospheric crisis 445,000 years ago on the planet Nibiru, our
solar system's far-orbiting tenth planet. Nibiru, Sitchin's evidence
shows, was inhabited by long-lived modern humans. 300,000 years ago, Enki responded a problem he created to get a response so he could offer a solution, a solution he thought practical and erotic as well. He staged a mutiny of the miners in Africa. His solution to the mutiny: genetically alter southeast African apemen devolved from ancient human setters decimated by Earth's periodic astronomical catastrophies-- into hybrid Earthlings--Homo Erectus and Homo Neanderthalensis --to mine and refine gold. Expedition officers taught the slaves also to raise crops for themselves and the expedition's working complexes in Mesopotamia. Nibirans enjoyed the slaves sexually as well, and regularly added their genes to the pool of the Earthling slaves' DNA to create Cro Magnon--us, today's Homo Sapiens, like the Nibirans but lacking their longevity. After the Deluge, 13,000 years ago, the masters had their Earthlings build cities in Sumer. The masters bade their slaves address them as "gods". The so-called gods lived in luxury in ziggurat castles next to their aircraft hangars. The gods managed their Earthlings through priest-kings--hybrid descendants of one of Enki's Earthling lovers. The gods taught Earthlings information and skills so they could best serve the gods, their needs and the expedition's mining mission--skills in astronomy, mathematics, agriculture, herding, writing, architecture and geology. Several gods dictated memoirs to slave scribes. The memoirs were particular gods' personal slants on the formation of the Solar System, history on Nibiru, the Expedition to Earth, the Flood, and the god's take on current events. The gods on Earth differentiated themselves into two murderously competitive lineages. One of these lineages were descendants of Enki. Enki's lineage struggled with the lineage descended from Enki's half-brother Enlil (Yahweh in some Biblical contexts). The gods of each of these lineages, as well as factions within each lineage taught Earthlings the skills and mind-set of genocidal war, violence, slaving and defoliation. Each god insisted on his or her slaves' unquestioning obedience. Each god demanded his or her slaves hate and fight opponent gods' kings and their slaves. Some Earthlings escaped the mines and settlements of the gods and fled into the hinterlands, away from the gods' wars. No more would they be fodder not only for spears, arrows, then chariots. They'd escape also terrible technological killing devices of the gods: explosives, lasers, gas and biological agents. In 2023 B.C. wars of the gods climaxed in thermonuclear genocide of Earthlings in Canaan and Mesopotamia. The unexpected fallout from the nuking prompted the gods to scatter over or exit Earth. Records Nibirans and their agents left us offer impeccable evidence that extraterrestrials settled Earth. The evidence includes stone-carved star charts that map Neptune, Uranus, Pluto--three planets beyond eye-range from Earth. Maps chart rocket routes through our solar system. The Nibiran-dictated maps feature accurate geographical details of the entire Earth. This mapping could only have been done from space. The maps show the landmass under the Antarctic icesheet. The astronauts were able to map Antarctic land after 11,000 B.C., because the sheet had slid into the Ocean, caused the Deluge and drowned most of their Earthlings. Our science confirms the records the gods dictated to their hybrid scribes. We have verified and continue to verify the Nibiran gold miners' genetic, metallurgical, geological, scientific, mathematic, astronomical accounts. In our museums and hinterland caves Earthlings have drawn Sumerian rocketships, helicopter-like whirlbirds and flying saucers. Modern biology validates Sumerian engravings of Enki splicing double helix DNA to create an Earthling worker. Our science still hasn't deciphered how the gods moved giant rocks better than we can to build their navigational landmarks--the Giza pyramids, monuments on our moon, Mars and on Mars' moon, Phobos. With Sitchin's evidence we free ourselves to create a new paradigm, a paradigm unfettered by the"godspell". Godspell is philosopher Neal Freer's word for the yearning of Earthlings for the return of their Nibiran Lords. The yearning for such "divine" lead created alternative and competing religions which mandate murder of millions–murder seen as service and duty to gods worshipped by the competing faiths. And the gods, remember, are merely long-lived, technologically advanced humans with a wide range of individual quirks and a hierarchic, largely patriarchal, warlike culture. The gods were, by and large, obsessed with genealogical precedence and male superiority. Most gods were petty, homicidal slavers, contemptuous of Earthlings' consciousness. And genetically we're half Nibiran, with their genetic propensity to violence, greed and genocidal competition.
Our other half, the Homo Erectus in
us--the hominid the Nibirans altered--resonates with Gaia, this
planet. Homo Erectus was probably a species devolved from earlier
Homo Sapiens Sapiens settlement of our planet, millions of years
before the arrival of the Nibirans [Cremo, M. and Thompson, R.,
Forbidden Archeology: The Hidden History of the Human Race, Cremo,
M., 2003, Human Devolution: A Vedic Alternative to Darwin's Theory]
Our Gaia aspect cooperates more than our Nibiran aspect. When we
know and balance both within us, we break the godspell, become peers
rather than servants of the gods. We and they evolve together to
support, encouragement, love and celebration of consciousness and
its manifestations.
6. DECLARATION OF PEACE FOR ALL - Channeled
by Goddess Kira Ninmah January 19, 2009 7. CALENDAR - School of Tantra Calendar - 9. Launch of Maui Matchmakers - www.mauimatchmakers.com, www.maui-matchmakers.ning.com
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