PREPARE YOURSELF AND THE SPACE FOR GODDESS WORSHIP

    Giver, clean your nails and brush your teeth afresh. If you’re male and clean-shaven, shave again; if you’ve a beard, shampoo it.

    Dress to please the Receiver. Find food, drink, flowers and music she’ll like. Arrange the room to delight and relax her. Place water, towels, massage oil and internal lubricant next to the bed.

    Invent ways to show her you love loving (and, if needed, healing) her on this date. Invite her to bathe while you disconnect the phone and adjust the lighting and music.

    When she returns from the bath, meet her gaze and keep eye-contact with her throughout the date.

    Tell her, in your own words--but poetic ones, "I appreciate this opportunity to please and replenish you.

    "May I undress you and see your body?" As you do, laud her looks aloud.

DEDICATE TOUCH TO PERSONAL AND UNIVERSAL HEALING

    Invite her to lie down. Touch your right palm to her heart and put her right hand on your heart. Rest your left hand on the back of her right and tell her to put her left on your right. Look deeply into her left eye.

  MASSAGE MADONNA

    Then say, "May I massage you?"

    As she stretches out on her belly, gently tug her toes. Rub her soles and the backs of each leg. Do her fingers, palms, arms. Then massage her back and her bottom.

    Help her turn over. Dance your fingers over the tops of her feet and hands, the front of her arms and legs. Barely brush her labia and nipples as you glide your hands over her torso. Massage her face and head.

    Stroke and knead the muscles inside the leg (especially the gluteus, "the root of the clitoris") that insert into her pelvis. Press your fingers deeply into the muscles above her pubic bone.