Tantra Techniques for Chakra 2,  the Genital Chakra concerned with SEX, SENSUALITY, REPRODUCTION Male Receives: Sexual Massage and Healing BLESS HIS BASE Sasha Lessin, Ph.D. Cancer - Susan Seddon Boulet (excerpted from Delight Dionysus: How to Really Love a Man by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D.)

     Help a man enjoy the healing and erotic potential of his rectal cave. 

     Create an intimate scene together, where you have a couple of uninterrupted hours in a locale where you can make plenty of noise. 

     Breathe deeply together. Gaze into his left eye at the god within. Adore him with your eyes, while you hold his wand (penis, lingam), in your left hand. Oil the fingers of your right hand. 

     The man lies on his back; he’s Receiver. Rest your hands on his heart. Tell him, in your own words, that you dedicate your touch to his healing and the healing of all men. He responds, "I’m open to receive your love."

     Gently touch each of his chakras and massage him.

     Treat him to each of the following strokes. Say "Tell me and make sounds to show me how my touches feels to you. If you feel uncomfortable, pulse your rosebud and say so."

Lubricate his wand. Press, pat and lightly scratch it with your hands and fingers. Toss it from one of his thighs to the other and from one of your hands to the other.

With his wand against his belly, hold the base in one hand and press it, base to tip, against his belly. Slide your hands up and down the shaft.

                   Caress his wand jewel sack (scrotum), jewels (testicles) and perineum with your fingers, hands, breasts, lips,             tongue, genitals and other part's he might find pleasurable or interesting. Touch, hold, then massage each millimeter of his perineum and rosebud (the entrance to his cave). 

    Ask him to say what he feels, remembers and imagines as you trace the entrance then let your right ring finger gently glide into his cave. If he seems apprehensive but still wants to continue, ask him if he'd like to control the pace, pressure and depth by pressing his cave onto your finger. 

     When your finger's first in him, don't move awhile. Breathe together; make sounds with him as he emotes. Send love to him though your finger in his cave, your hand on his wand, and your gaze into his eyes. 

     Then begin a gentle, "come-here" motion with your ring finger. Fondle the front inner wall of his cave pulling gently from the pubic bone toward the jewels. Move your finger like a windshield wiper over the anterior wall of his cave. Trace circles and figure eights on the wall. Alternate speed, depth and pressure of your stroke. See, in his eyes, the effects of your touches. Say, "Tell me if any place I touch inside you feels pleasurable, hurts, burns or feels numb." Remember the spots he finds pleasurable. 

    If he notices a painful, numb or burning spot, ask him to close his eyes and notice his fantasies, memories and associations. Encourage him to express his emotions as he shares his associations. Tell him to imagine how he'd re-do the scene he associates with his pain. 

    Say, "If you had really lived the way you preferred, how would your life have been different? How would you be now?" 

    Then move your finger back and forth from the spot that had the painful association and a pleasurable spot, till he reports they both feel good. Tell him to remember, in situations that remind him of his painful imprints, that he could live from his re-do scene, with it's growthful pattern, rather than the self-limiting program associated with story he remembered or made-up. He has, remind him, choice.