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WE’RE ALL
POLYAMOROUS
by Janet Kira Lessin
worldpolyamory@aol.com
Everyone, including you, is polyamorous. We’re all poly
because, at the most expanded level of our consciousness,
there’s only one of us and we love all our aspects, the many
people and creatures that collectively comprise us. Loving
oneness is our natural state. Polyamory’s a high spiritual
path that connects us intimately with more aspects of
ourselves when we realize our Oneness with the All There Is,
with Creator God(des).
Separation and duality create a perceived separation from
God, from Oneness, from all the parts of Self. When we feel
separate from Godmind, most of us can’t remember our
wholeness, though we each have holographic reflections of
that wholeness within us, even as the whole hologram (“God”)
has each of us within it. When we forget our oneness with
everything and everyone, we see some of our parts–other
people--as ‘Not Self’ and not worthy of love. When we see
others as not us we distance ourselves from them, catalog
and categorize as unworthy of our attention, energy and
lovemaking. But what we judge and evaluate the worthiness of
the apparent others which are actually the other parts of
ourselves. In actuality all are equal, loveable, worthy,
desirable. Before we see our lovers as expressions of
ourselves, we get to play with them and experience them as
different than who we think we are. Then, when we connect as
lovers or friends, we realize we and they are each other in
divine unity.
But we are each--though we may be unconscious of it--the
inclusive, interconnected beneficent whole as well as the
smaller persons we think we are. Each of us is the
totality-- loveable, worthy of relating, sharing energy, and
loving physically; we’re all are part of Self/God/Universal
Mind. From this perspective we’re all worthy in all ways. We
manifest divine mind when we mix, mingle, mate and
co-create.
Life stagnates unless we imagine we are a self different
from selves we regard other people to be. When we
distinguish ourself from our lovers, we can interact,
exchange, flow, conflict, perturbate and create a reality, a
drama--the passion play we call life. Our passion play turns
from melodrama to comedy when we realize it is we and people
we thought weren’t us playing all parts in our movie. We
co-create our universe from the many people we regarded as
not us.
What makes me feel as though I am in opposition to many when
I am really one with all? What makes me run from some parts
of myself and make love with others? Some of the people I
feel in opposition with are those who are angry, violent and
warlike. I, the current self with which I identify hates
war-bringers and polluters, oil barons who suppress free
energy systems that honor the Earth. But when I think of all
that frightens, annoys, scares and disgusts me about this
world and the people who exhibit behaviors I don’t like, I
downspiral, experience an endless void and work myself into
an emotional downer. Yet, even those people who do things I
do not like are just like me, I am them. How, I ask myself,
can I balance the inner and outer me, the personal and
global me? Sometimes I think I have no control over what
others do. But is that true? Am I and are you really
hopeless victims doomed to eternal slavery and Armageddon
imposed upon us by unconscious, uncaring dictators?
Polyamory can return us to wholeness. Polyamory resembles
the oneness we feel when we reunite with all parts of
ourselves and feel unity with apparent others and the
totality of existence. When we simultaneously hold awareness
of our separateness and our unity, we dance in all
dimensions of being. We experience our multi-dimensional
selves. This unity consciousness is nearly impossible to
maintain, but it gets easier the more you experience it. I
say accomplish it. You may at first realize you can hold all
dimensions of awareness at the same time, but you need to
practice living from multidimentionality.
When you love polyamorously, you meet your reflection in
many people and come to love of them and therefore more of
your selves than you ever thought possible. You become ever
more aware that love is endless, boundless and that each is
a part of the whole, a part of you and all are ONE. The
challenge of balancing egos and issues rewards you in
personal evolution and awareness. The rewards of polylove
devoted to your own growth and to the growth of those you
love far exceed the challenges of relating poly. Commit to
the process, burn your prejudices on the polyamorous pyre
and a new you that emerges. Phoenix rising, born anew, you
recreate yourself to a better you.
If not in a closed circle of poly lovers and are open to new
partners, you attract potential lovers who resonate voices
in you, voices of your own you don’t fully appreciate yet.
What you dislike in people you attract reflects your own
underdeveloped or disowned inner voices. If you incorporate
these apparently difficult aspects of your lovers and
acknowledge that you too similar, though repressed aspects
in the form of underdeveloped inner voices of your own, you
balance those voices. Learning to balance your inner voices
makes you grow; learning to balance your voices helps you
center yourself and make more informed choices.
Whatever you overly admire in your lovers, whatever you your
lovers have that you lack, also indicates that they show you
your own underdeveloped potentials. You, like they, also
possess inner voices that can manifest what you admire too
much in them. You develop these voices in yourself as a
result of interacting with lovers who display what you
admire. You become more conscious, aware and integrated.
Nothing in the human condition is alien to any of us. Light
and dark and all in between are all parts of existence and
parts of every self.
We get what we give. We experience. This dance with all the
energies of existence is Divine Play, Lila. Acknowledge
ourselves as co-creators. God Goddess is us. Take personal
responsibility and take back our power, re-establish our
connection to Source and become more effective. Remember who
we are and pull in those who resonate more fully with us and
our life mission, our Oneness. creates Good for this planet.
So set intentions. Be conscious and aware of what you put
out there. Everything comes round, comes back ten fold. You
deserve only the best, so put out what you want to get back.
Think good thoughts. Do good things no matter what else is
being done out there. Be true to yourself and know that in
your highest self you are of God, Good, of the light and
pure love. In our poly pods we manifest realities where we
can love, enjoy and play more.
With our lovers, In our erotic connects, especially our
orgasms together, we heal each other’s ancient personal,
pastlife. We don’t let anyone to hurt themselves or us, but
we help them fully express themselves as we witness them. We
encourage them express, breathe deeper, let it out, release
everything traumatic or negative that has ever happened. Let
it finally come out and let it go. They scream, rage, cry,
and thrash, but soon they express joy and weep as they move
from pain to bliss. We love them unconditionally. They and
we forgive ourselves.
Together in love pods we heal the past, present and future.
The planetary energy field shifts, realigns. We prepare the
world for its awakening. Deep expression, catharsis and
reprogramming, acceptance, love and tolerance in our pods
will heal the planet. We accept each of us as sexual. We
began in tribe and we return full circle to loving groups,
families that know, adore and accept us with all our
uniquenesses. In pods we can heal all issues of lack,
abandonment, guilt, shame, jealousy for they are but part of
the illusion we’re less than whole. We know our oneness and
as ONE are complete.
Develop your intimate network of lovers, beloveds and
healers. We support you as you open to who you really are,
the sexual being you are, capable of huge love and loving
more than one.
We love all we love. Love is. Now’s the time to accept our
feelings and find avenues where we each can accept limitless
love, love without artificial boundaries. Total, complete,
universal love.
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World Polyamory Association 
