Polys have it all. Continuity and diversity. Safety and adventure. The old, relaxing and the new, stimulating.

Many of us polys go for the experience of dating as pair, threesome or lover-group. We recommend you try group dating as Janet and I do.

Date as a collective. Consider yourselves a single experiencing consciousness.

As you date, you deepen your vulnerability and safety with each other in your primary lover heartspace.  At the same time, as a group or pair, you experience newness, variety and mystery with other singles or other couples and moresomes whom you date.

When, individually and as a group, you reflect on your dating experiences, you Improve your present primary pairings.  Dating new people awakens increased sexual energy between you and your primaries. Your libido rises, perked by the direct connections you experienced with your new lovers and by watching or hearing of your primaries' connects. 

So date and play; share consciousness, celebrate ecstatic sex.

Bring it all home.

Sasha Lessin worldpolyamory@aol.com